all over the place

Do you ever feel like you are rushing and rushing trying to get things done but really not accomplishing anything? I've had that feeling for the last week. The move went well and we are settling into the life of homeownership, but now I'm busy getting ready for a business trip and trying to figure out what business casual really means for a 23 year old. I can do business professional, button up shirt, suit jacket, heels, but give me the freedom to be a little casual and I'm not quite sure what to do. I think the worst part is that I'm self-conscious about my age and once again taking myself too seriously. Where has my confidence gone? I want to be unashamed of my youth and ready to learn and ask questions.